A relationship that didn’t pan out while living in Louisiana, Holder and his wife (who asked her last name not be used) were involved with another woman. Whenever Holder relocated to Fayetteville, Ga., for work, he stated he kept their family members in Louisiana for half a year to make sure he passed the probationary duration so the young ones could complete out of the school 12 months.
While surviving in Georgia and before their family that is primary moved, Holder came across Jeremy (whom additionally asked their final title never be utilized) at a camping event.
“We clicked and I also figured he’d click with my partner,” Holder claims.
‘No sneaking around, no lying, no cheating’
Holder, whom identifies as bisexual, introduced their wife to Jeremy couple of years ago. He’s got private — including intimate — time with Jeremy along with together with his spouse. Melissa also offers a intimate relationship with Jeremy. But all three are quick to indicate that polyamory just isn’t about being promiscuous.
“The biggest myth is the fact that love equals intercourse. It is possible to totally love somebody with out sexual intercourse,” Holder says.
Jeremy life in Alabama and visits Holder on the weekends and vacations. Jeremy comes with a gf in Alabama.
“We’re a whole lot more available. There is absolutely no sneaking around, no lying, no cheating, because having that standard of communication is huge. Also for monogamous partners, having a level that is strong of interaction is very important,” Holder says. “There’s absolutely nothing too large we can’t speak about.”